Work and Play
Because it’s been so warm and the pandemic restrictions are coming to an end, I find myself indulging in too many libations. There is nothing better than a beer on a hot day. Or a gin and tonic in the evening. Or a cider at the beach. Or a glass of wine on a patio with a friend. That list could keep going and going. I seem to be able to find an excuse to “celebrate” wherever I look.
Whenever I get into a cycle where my celebratory activity becomes more commonplace, something happens to remind me that some things are meant to be done sparingly, not regularly. What are my cues? Here’s a list that I’m positive we can all relate to:
- I am putting on weight
- I am spending too much money
- I am falling behind on my responsibilities
- I am grouchy with my family because of all of the above.
If you’re a highly disciplined person, you may not relate to this but I think most of us can. Once I get over my frustration and panic, I get to work. I make a plan, I put restrictions on myself, and live more “on purpose”. My course correction is usually successful.
But that’s not the end of it. If I am too strict with myself, I rebel against my rules and backslide. I have learned over time that I can’t be too militant with myself. I need “moderation” not “elimination”. I need to let myself have something to look forward to. I need to work hard but then I need to celebrate. Both hard work and celebration are more meaningful when they come as a pair in the right doses.
I hope that your summer is the perfect balance of work and play, determination and celebration, deprivation and libation. Cheers! 🥂
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